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Traditional Vietnamese weddings encompass six essential ceremonies that celebrate family unity, ancestral respect, and cultural heritage. From the proposal ceremony to the post-wedding gratitude rituals, each element carries deep symbolic meaning that has been preserved for generations.
Vietnamese wedding traditions reflect the deeply held values of family honor, respect for elders, and spiritual connection to ancestors. Unlike Western weddings that focus primarily on the couple, Vietnamese ceremonies emphasize the union of two families and communities.
In Vietnamese culture, marriage is viewed as a joining of two families rather than just two individuals. Parents and extended family members play active roles in planning, ceremony participation, and blessing the union.
Every traditional Vietnamese wedding includes ancestor worship ceremonies where the couple seeks blessings from their deceased family members, believing their spirits continue to guide and protect the living. Every aspect of a Vietnamese wedding carries meaning, from the colors worn to the gifts exchanged, creating a rich tapestry of cultural significance.
Traditional Vietnamese weddings represent far more than a single day's celebration (Source: Internet)
Traditional Vietnamese wedding customs evolved during the Nguyen Dynasty (1744-1945), when elaborate ao tac (ancient formal áo dài with long sleeves) became the standard wedding attire. These customs were influenced by Chinese traditions while maintaining distinctly Vietnamese characteristics, creating a unique cultural blend that persists today.
The wedding costume of Vietnamese people in Hue during Nguyen Dynasty (Source: Vietnam Airlines)
Traditional Vietnamese weddings consist of six distinct ceremonies, each with specific purposes and rituals. While modern couples often combine or modify these ceremonies, understanding their original structure provides insight into Vietnamese cultural values.
The proposal ceremony marks the formal beginning of the marriage process. The groom's family visits the bride's home to officially express their intention for marriage and discuss the union with her family.
Key Elements:
Today, this ceremony often happens after the couple has already decided to marry, serving as a formal family introduction rather than an initial proposal.
A well-prepared gift basket should be brought by the groom-to-be to the house of the bride-to-be (Source: Internet)
Also known as the betrothal ceremony, this is one of the most important pre-wedding events. The groom's family formally asks for the bride's hand in marriage and presents traditional gifts.
Traditional gifts include mam qua (red lacquered boxes), containing:
The betel leaves and areca nuts are particularly important, as the phrase "matters of betel and areca" (chuyen trau cau) is synonymous with matrimony in Vietnamese culture.
Le An Hoi is organized at the bride’s house (Source: Internet)
This ceremony formally announces the couple's betrothal to the community. Jewelry is exchanged, and the couple is officially considered engaged.
Ceremony Highlights:
This ceremony is rather an “official” engagement party, witnessed by families of the bride and the groom (Source: Internet)
The main wedding ceremony typically takes place at the groom's home and includes the most significant rituals of ancestor worship and family blessing.
Core Components:
Le Thanh Hon is usually organized at the house of both the bride and the groom (Source: Internet)
The celebratory feast brings together both families and the community to celebrate the new union with food, music, and traditional entertainment.
Reception Features:
The wedding reception is a modern touch comparing to the traditional Vietnamese weddings (Source: Internet)
A few days after the wedding, the couple visits the bride's family home to express gratitude and maintain family connections. This ceremony emphasizes that while the bride has joined her husband's family, she maintains eternal bonds with her birth family.
The áo dài is the most iconic element of Vietnamese wedding attire, representing elegance, cultural pride, and tradition. This fitted silk garment features floor-length panels worn over pants, creating a graceful silhouette that embodies Vietnamese femininity.
Bridal Ao Dai Features:
Groom's Attire:
Ao Dai is an important piece in Vietnamese wedding costumes (Source: Internet)
Both bride and groom traditionally wear the khan van, a tiered headpiece resembling an open-top turban made from layers of fabric.
Design Characteristics:
The headpiece is a preserve of tradition (Source: Internet)
Red: The dominant color representing happiness, good fortune, and prosperity. Used extensively in decorations, clothing, and gift wrapping.
Gold: Symbolizes wealth, prosperity, and divine blessings. Often incorporated in embroidery and jewelry.
Pink: Popular for bridesmaids' attire, representing femininity and grace.
Blue: Traditional color for grooms, representing tranquility and hope.
Red symbolizes luck and happiness, so most of the time weddings have the color red (Source: Internet)
In Vietnamese wedding culture, gift-giving transcends simple generosity to become a sophisticated language of blessings, social status, and spiritual wishes. Each item presented carries centuries of symbolic meaning, carefully chosen to convey specific hopes for the couple's future prosperity, fertility, and happiness.
The most significant gift exchange occurs when the groom's family presents mam qua (traditional red lacquered gift trays) to the bride's family during the engagement ceremony. It usually includes:
This is usually called “trap”, and are prepared carefully by the groom’s family (Source: Internet)
Wedding guests participate in the celebration through thoughtful gifts that blend practical support with cultural symbolism. The choice of gift often reflects the guest's relationship to the couple and their understanding of Vietnamese traditions:
Red envelope or gifts wrapped in red packaging is a great option (Source: Internet)
Gifts are presented during specific ceremony moments, often accompanied by blessings and advice, often wrapped in red paper or cloth, with red symbolizing good fortune and happiness. Even numbers are preferred for most gifts, while odd numbers are used for gift containers to bring luck.
The bride's family often reciprocates with smaller gifts and red envelopes to acknowledge the generosity.
A traditional Vietnamese wedding is not just a ceremony but a bridge connecting past, present, and future. It honors the generations who came before while celebrating the love that will create tomorrow's families. In preserving these beautiful traditions, we ensure that the wisdom and values of Vietnamese culture continue to enrich our modern world.
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